Frequently Asked Questions

Application Process & How to Apply

  • Applications close promptly after the 3-week application window. Once the deadline passes, we are unable to accept additional submissions for that bachelor.

  • Each bachelor’s application window is 3 weeks - plenty of time to thoughtfully submit your best self!

  • Once submitted, no edits can be made. If you need to make changes, you will need to submit a new application (please note the same application fee will apply).

    Pro tip: Take your time reviewing your answers before submitting. You can even save your application and return later to polish your responses.

  • Not yet, but as this experience evolves, we are building new features to better support you and make the journey more effortless! Stay tuned for updates.

  • Absolutely not! Your IG can stay private and social media isn’t required. We care about the real you, your personality, your vibe and your openness to love not your follower count 

Application Fees & Payment

  • As our community has grown, we have introduced a small $11.11 (USD) fee to help us cover some of our administrative costs and maintain the quality of our process. 

    Each application has always received and will continue to receive the care, attention and intentional review it deserves. 

  • We wanted to make this experience as cost effective as possible so everyone can apply. 

    11:11 is symbolically powerful - 1111 in numerology represents manifestation, new beginnings and alignment.

    Applying is more than filling out a form - it’s saying: I am ready. I am open. I am choosing love, connection and new possibilities.

  • All payments are handled securely through a trusted payment processor, ensuring your information is safe and protected. 

    The $11.11 USD application fee covers administrative costs and helps us maintain the care, intentionality and quality of every application. Think of it as a small, secure step toward putting your best self forward and saying yes to love and connection

    We do not store your card details. Your payment is securely processed through our connected payment provider, Stripe. Your card information is encrypted and sent directly to Stripe and we cannot see, access or reuse your card details through your application. 


  • All application fees are final and non-refundable.

Selection Process & Updates

    • After the 3-week application period closes, our team thoughtfully reviews every single application.

    • All suitable applications are presented to the bachelor and carefully chooses one (or more) applicants.

    • To protect everyone’s privacy, this process is kept confidential.

    • If you are selected, you’ll receive a personal email with next steps to connect - and we promise, it’s exciting!

  • Due to the high volume of applications we receive, we are only able to personally contact those who are selected to move forward. If you do not hear from us, it simply means you were not chosen for that specific bachelor at this time.

    Please know every application is genuinely reviewed and thoughtfully considered. Selection ultimately comes down to the bachelor’s personal preferences, timing and alignment, it’s never a reflection of your worth.

    We wholeheartedly encourage you to stay in the mix and apply for future bachelors. The right alignment can happen at any time and we would absolutely love to see you apply again. 

  • If you aren’t selected for a particular bachelor, don’t worry! This doesn’t mean you’re not amazing - it simply means this match wasn’t the right fit. You’re welcome to apply for as many future bachelors as you like, because love and connection are limitless 

  • He reviews applications personally, looking for alignment, energy and the qualities he values. He reviews your responses and photos and every decision is made with intention and respect.

  • Shoot your shot! You only miss 100% of the chances you don’t take. Applying is about putting yourself out there, choosing yourself, and embracing the possibility of connection. Who knows? You might just be exactly what he’s looking for.

Privacy, Safety & Security

  • We completely respect your privacy. Your application and photos are never shared publicly - they are only used for the bachelor’s review process. For full details, please see our Privacy Policy.

  • This is REAL LIFE, not reality TV! Every step is handled with privacy and care, respecting both the bachelor and applicants. Our goal is meaningful connection, not drama - we focus on intentional introductions and authentic experiences.

  • Absolutely! Love knows no boundaries. While proximity can make meeting easier, we encourage anyone open to going the distance for connection to apply. After all, the right person is worth it .

  • Be yourself, be thoughtful, and be intentional! Share your authentic energy, interests and what you’re truly looking for in a connection. Applications that show confidence, personality and a genuine openness to love always shine.

  • We intentionally share key details about each bachelor through the videos and content we post during the 3-week application period.

    We encourage you to watch his videos and follow along closely, as this gives you the best insight into his personality, lifestyle and energy to see if it feels aligned for you.

  • Yes! We are growing intentionally and featuring women is one of our expansions to come! We can’t wait to expand the experience to include bachelorettes, so stay tuned.

Application Tips

  • We are so grateful for the incredible volume of love, messages and excitement we receive. Due to the high volume of DMs and emails, we are unfortunately unable to respond to every individual message.

    Thank you for your understanding and for being part of this beautiful, growing community!

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